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Letters From a Hospital Bed #15: Reflections From a 99 Year Old

Letters from a Hospital Bed is a series of reflections by Jim Houston, now entering his 100th year, in which Jim seeks to capture and reflect new insights of his ever-discoverable God, revealed through his own hospitalization, for the encouragement of all care givers.

An Exploration of the Strange Experience of Being Still…Well, More Still Than Normal!

February 23, 2022


Dear Friends;


I well remember when I first moved from independent living to my independent apartment where meals and some support were provided. I was excited to think of new ministry opportunities with new friends who were part of my new neighbourhood. It did not turn out as I originally hoped. There were a few glimmers of common interest, but not many. It frustrated me then. I understand it better now. To be fully alive when your body is less and less interested or capable becomes not only challenging, but a source of a deep weary. I have never really subscribed to the ‘once and one’ sense of the familiar phrase “be born again”. Over and over, in my life, the Lord has opened new doors, revealed new vistas, allowed me to enter new landscapes of both mind and soul. And so it has been again, more recently for as less and less was possible, I have seen more and more. So much newness, that on many days I sense being “born (yet) again”!


One of the ways in which my dear wife Rita had a disproportional influence on our family, was to train our children to tease me as mercilessly as she, in her own way, did herself. As I started to explore and edit into common language the works of the desert fathers and other pioneers of our Christian faith, our children referred to my ‘dearest friends, most of whom had been dead for over a millennium’. While their irreverence was harmless fun, there was a grain of truth in their mischief as I was drawn to immerse myself in Augustine, John Chrysostom and the early church fathers, Bernard of Clairvaux and the monastic founders and later contemplatives like Theresa of Avila and John of the Cross. Late, I have begun to wonder why it is that they had such wisdom for us that transcends the unrecognizable context in which we live today.


As I reread their texts and reflected quietly on what I knew of their lives and how they expressed their reality of a very Living God, I began to find myself drawn more deeply than ever into the refreshment of their wisdom. But why? Why were they getting my attention now, at 99, more deeply than ever before. I had studied them. They were the focus of my scholarship, yet I was knowing something more deeply than I had ever known it. It was all so new! Why did I sense their renewing influence in my seemingly ‘old’ spirit? As I puzzled with this conundrum, I realized that this newness came because not only were they different from me and the scholarship I have engaged for most of my life, but that I now was different than I had been, and could hear and sense in new ways.


It is said, with some mischief, that the apex of authentic scholarship is realized when there are only one or two other people on the planet with whom you might enjoy a robust conversation! The microscopic mind formation of the scholar is to become more and more expert on less and less. The ancients, unburdened by the yet undiscovered treasure trove of modern knowledge, still to be discovered, looked through their telescope backwards and as they looked into the mysteries of God, their vision grew wider not narrower. Their minds were far less cluttered than ours. Like Mary, they chose only ‘one thing’, to know Christ. Like my good friend, mentor and colleague in the formation of Regent, Marshall Sheppard, they adhered to the example of the Jewish scholar, now apostle Paul, ‘to know nothing among you except Christ crucified’. As I age, I must be satisfied with less and less, and yet it is becoming more and more!

So, not only were the ancients different, but I am different; first in my body, though not by choice, and as consequence, in my mind, as well. Jesus affirmed of Mary in her stillness, ‘she has chosen well’. While, I confess, I did not choose this state of being much more immobile than has been my life habit, it has forced me to see more, to go deeper, to be still with the deeper wisdom of the ancients and to hunger for what they had found in the greater simplicity with which they lived. In consequence, the very disabling of what was once possible, is enabling a deeper reality of God than I have ever known and so, I find, I am ‘born again’…in my 100th year!


If ever we have all lived through a time when more of what we knew was upended by what is unknown and, for the most part, unwelcome, it is these past few years of pandemic. We can each produce litanies of things lost and longed for in ‘re-opening’, or whatever lies ahead. My body will not ‘re-open’, in the sense of new opportunity that many of you can sense ahead, and so my prayer for you is that as you have opportunity to regain all the former ‘busyness’ that may have been ‘stolen’ by recent circumstances, that you hold fast to this one thing, to know Christ, and Him crucified and to treasure the path of Mary in resisting all the many new distractions that become possible, and retain a hunger for the few.


In friendship


Jim









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Craig Gallaway
Craig Gallaway
Feb 26, 2022

Thank you Jim for your example of faith, courage, and hope in the face of diminishing physical capabilities. Of course all of us must try to become prepared for this in our own lives, though some are still far away and few have gone so far as you. As the Apostle said, “We also groan who have the first fruits of the inheritance yet to come as we await the redemption of our bodies.” And I am reminded of C. S. Lewis’s quip about aging that it is like being an old jalopy going down the road rattling as the parts fall off; but how good it will be to get the new resurrection model! Deb and I remember you…

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DEAR CRAIG,


THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVING LETTER. THANK YOU AND DEB. FOR YOUR DAILY REMEMBRANCE OF EACH OTHER. HOW PRECIOUS IS THE COMMUNION OF SAINTS.


MUCH LOVE,

JIM

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Scott Burnett
Scott Burnett
Feb 26, 2022

Thanks for these thoughts Jim, I am trying to learn to see life more from the perspective of my grandchildren, especially those who are 2, 3 and 4. I think it was Brueggemann who used the phrase "abiding astonishment". I want to grow in that posture. I'm making a start. Since leaving the pastorate and becoming a corporate chaplain I have given away about 2500 of the 3000 books that used to be in my study. I won't be able to read them and I am easily distracted, so I'm trying to move from many to much. Thanks for all the visits over the years and for your challenging me to keep my focus on God and what He wa…

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Waldney Carmignani
Waldney Carmignani
Feb 24, 2022

My dear friend, how I miss you. Your words seem to be received by my heart fresh, as you always speak with your heart direct to mine, as you do now. I wish to be with you one more time this year, just been, nothing else. May our Father of all Love, bless you in all manner these days. Your Friend from Brazil. Waldney

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Dear Jim, i love this so much! We are having the privilege of joining you in this season of unrequested stillness. For those of us who have known you for many years, the richness of your wisdom seems to be actually flowering and producing even greater fruit than in seasons of your past.

Your words resonate in the hearts of us who know our future may look a lot like where you are now. At least, as we age, we face loss more frequently.

I can’t adequately express how I feel like you are helping us grow now, and also helping us prepare for our future. You inspire me to hope to continue to give until my last breath.

I…

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Marty Folsom
Marty Folsom
Feb 24, 2022

This is a wonderful reflection, Jim. I find that the pandemic has allowed me to write, connect through Zoom, and feel alive in a sense of being reborn. I love your image. Are you an old spirit or a young, fresh soul alive with the Holy Spirit? I see the latter. In Christ, we are all being renewed. You are a blessing! Marty Folsom

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